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When Romantism is getting dimmer

Posted on February 5th, 2008 in Tips and News love, loving, romantism

What do we really want in marriage ? love, passion, or peace ?

In our marriage life, there must be a time when there is no “tremble”  between you. If this happened, what will you do? Find the tremble with other people?
“ I am still loving you , but  I can`t feel it anymore”. That what is the reason why they carry on. The tremble of love toward husband or wife is missing. So they think it is no bad to express  and share the feeling to other people and forgetting the partner at home.

When the partner respended by increasing romantism, they aren`t attracted anymore. If this happened the marriage will be tasteless. In dramatically they can get divorce.
That`s poor if you understand romantism is like that. When it is gone as time goes by, the marriage will be the victim.
Romantism is something emerged when the couple is in love. Folktale,novel and film are clearly describe romantism. Infotainment on TV show the roamntism  of some selebrities show in publics. Becouse we see the ideal romantism so we want to have it too, oh it`s so ….beatiful.
On the other hand, in reality, we rarely find as dramatic aas story like that. It is only fiction, anyway we take it for granted.
Romantism is something need treating,like other needs. Everyone need loving, appreciating, needing and understanding. We try to get it from our partner.
It is as the essential basic in making love. When we are in love, the body will producing some chemist hormon get our body to make love. Such kind of hormon emerged when animal is in love.
For our life, we will have sensation of love to two or three people. No certain reason for this, why do we fall in love to everyone. Yet, it doesn`t mean we have to give anything we have to the people who make us fall in love. For animal this is tolerate.   
The flame romantism is important, yet it last fast. When, it is passed, the must be done by husband and wife is to keep the balance. The reciept of the partner, trust will make the family life stabil and peace. Just try it !