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Actually, every family has its own problem. It means that it is the responsibility and its family affairs. But how if the parents in – law interfere it. According to Anna Surti Ariani, Psi, psychologist from Medicare Clinic, Jakarta, there are some things to face it.
1.    Listen
Sometime, they just want to know. Just listen them, yet you don’t like it. Just suppose it is a good intention from them to solve the problem.
2.    Asking

If they suggest and offer a hand, there is no wrong to ask them. But it must be no negative thinking. Who knows it can open your horizon.
3.    Look first
Don’t lose your temper on their interference, yet you are annoyed so much. Look how far they interfere and how far it makes you inconvenient.
4.    Be Assertive
If their suggestion and character are not good, don’t be afraid to reject it. It’s your right. Say frankly, doesn’t keep in heart for causing your depressing.
5.    Reject softly
If you receive their suggestion and help, there will be no problem. But if it isn’t please refuse politely. Keep your cool, don’t be angry and talk so much to them. And say thank you for thinking us. If you are sure what your decision and the risk, say to them.
6.    Giving time
If their character is still cold, let the time to cure it. Understand it, who know they forget their son have their own family.
7.    Keep familiar
It is often that they urge to force their want, although you have refuse it. Don’t be sad if they let you and become cold to you. Keep familiar with them and ask them to talk and bringing them some food.