This day our child begs a bike like his friend, tomorrow begs a car toy, and every time after watching food and drinking tv ads, he says,” mom, i want to buy like that one on tv,?” You will be confused, all right ?
It is clearly this action not good. If every of his will is fulfilled, he will grow as a consumptive person, much attached / spoiled, and don’t know the priority thing. What must we do?
•    Give an explanation
Explain to him, the reason to buy it. Say that the thing is needed, not because you want to show up. Don’t be afraid to talk about money. If you can` t afford to buy what he wants, say it honestly.
•    Limit the tv
Limit the time to watch tv. The ads massage is always wrong to child thought. Help him to mean the massage of it.
•    Ask to go out
Ask the child to love not the things. Do biking, walking in the morning, playing tennis. Do the job using the thinking and spirit, without spending much money.
•    Avoid consumptive
If you can afford to celebrate a party. Don’t force it. Talk over with your family to buy a gift, christmas.
•    Teach how to manage money
Give the child pocket money and help him to manage it. Based on the 9-14 years old child, seen that the child who get pocket money can economize than that that doesn’t have.
There is no measurement, how much money to give, but the aim is not to satisfy all his need and make him understand that he can use his own money to buy what he needs. This will make him understand that one thing is expensive and can afford and they can appreciate it.
•    Don’t be attached
Don’t show your love with the things. Make a habit to attach him with thing, only will make him consumptive. Be sure that they are loved what they are. 

Barbara de angelis,ph,d, affair expert and the writer ask Barbara , give the characteristic of mar. Wrong, here they are :

Addicted ( drug, alcohol, gambling and so forth ) . Making a date with an addicted really hurts you.
The anger man . Living with an anger man like a time bomb you don’t know when it explodes.
Blamer . Any other time you will be the target.
Controller. This type will always determine your life.
Not adult. If you don’t want to act like  parents you had better find the other.
Not mature emotion. He is not willing to open his heart for you.
The partner can’t forget his past with his ex. girl.

Wrong to choose darling ? No way ?
In order to not be wrong to choose darling again, follow this  tips :

Get acquaintance with many friends before choosing your darling.
Search information here and there before saying “ yes “
Build up intimate relationship during the process. If there are many conflicts and many unsuitable things, don’t hesitate to break up.
Don’t be in a hurry to step a head in serious level.

Foundation makes the face looks brighter. But if you are mistaken in choosing it, your face looks like a mask and wrinkly. Well, what is the kind of foundation and how to choose it?
Tips in choosing color

When you buy it, don’t use any make up.
Choose foundation similar to your skin
The ideal area to try is around the neck and face. Don’t only try on back of hand, since the result will be different.
The too bright color makes you looks like wearing a mask.
The too dark color looks like you are getting angry. This make up just good for on the stage make up.

The kinds of foundation
•    Mousse
This kinds is very easy usage and right for skin needed thin layer alias not much area is unclear.
•    Liquid
It gives light impression on face and can cover the small spots without looking like wearing a mask. It is good for all kind of skin.
•    Cream
It blurs much more area, and the rest of deep spot. It usually contains much oil, and good for dry skin.
•    Cake
The shape is compact and easy taken anywhere and easy usage. Lubricate a little with the sponge on face skin and it will close perfectly. It contains water and oil. Use oil based for dry skin and water based for oily skin.
•    Stick
It contains oil and good for dry skin. It gives “heavy “impression on a face.
•    Powder
It is very good for oily skin. It is easy usage and can cover face skin perfectly all day.
•    Tinted moisturizers
It is not real foundation, but if you like sun stroke, it will protect your skin perfectly. You need not make up, because it will vanish the nature sense.
•    Satin finish
It contains smooth grain that makes your face shining. It is only good dry skin and used in the afternoon.
•    Concealed
If the mark can’t be blurred with ordinary one, use this kind. Choose the similar color with your skin.

Usage

Before using it, make sure the face is clean and ready to make up. Use oily tissue to withdraw the oil sticks on face, or just wash water for dry skin.

Lubricate to all face. Use sponge for wide area, like cheek and chin area, use a little one for folded part like under eye, nose and so fort.

Start from the middle of face, than continue to nose under eye, than be around your face till the neck.

Don’t forget to lubricate in eyelid and cheek area.

Use tills the last drop Here are the tips:

If the last drop isn’t enough, mix with little moisturizer on the back hand. Than lubricate all around.
The tube foundation on upside down all night. The morning you can use the last drop.
Cut the middle part of bottle (if it is made of soft material), and look how much the rest you can use.

Do you ever have affair with your partner ?  There are negative and positive things you get. The positive one is if the relationship over.
You like it or not, you must make your ex. everyday. How do you face this ? Here is the game rule if you have to break up with your office friend.

Act your age
Show your maturity by vanishing personnel problem. If you both are in the same project. If you decide to break up, don’t avoid seeing him. Just give common smile and avoid asking “ how are you “ since it can hurt his feeling.

Information
If your friend knows your affair , you have to tell her your last date. If you boss doesn’t ask you, you must shut up although you sit near your ex. boy friend.

Avoid gossip
If you don’t respond and indifferent to issue, at last it will vanish and will not be talked more.

Know when to have vacation
If you are really disturbed and can’t concentrate, you had better take a vacation to relax yourself.

Quit if needed
If someone color you bad, or if you are still in his office will endanger, you had better find the other one.
You need remembering, however how hurt it is and trying to overcome it, it is possible to get good relationship. It is just temporally and everything will be all right if you know what to do.

Drinking after eating is good. But nine things, you had better not do it. Here we go……….
1.    Smoking
It harms our body, more over done after eating. According to research, smoking cigarettes after eating is similar with smoking ten cigarettes, and to get cancer is more probable.
2.    Eating fruit
Eating fruit immediately after eating must be avoided, since it makes your stomach full of wind. It is better to consume fruit 1-2 hours after eating or one hour before eating. It will make your stomach full up and you don’t eat much.
3.    Drinking tea
It contains high sourest thing. This makes the protein is difficult to digest. Besides, drinking tea after eating will block the substance absorption in the body up to 80 %. In fact, the zinc essence is needed for growing the quality body of a man.
4.    To loose the belt
It can cause blocked and twisted intestines.
5.    Bathing
Bathing after eating will increase the blood flow to hands, foot and body cause the blood around the belly decreases. It will weaken the abridgment system in our stomach.
6.    Having a walk
Walking will make the digest system unable to absorb the food nutrition of your food just eaten.
7.    Go off to sleep
Don’t take your sleepiness. Sleeping after eating makes the food unable to digest well. The result, the intestines will have a problem.
8.    Dinking ice water
It will freeze your oily food, mainly the fat, you eat. It will be created in the intestines and will make absorption pipe get narrower and make obesity. Substitute with warm water.
9.    Going out
It will cause no harm. But it is not polite.